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Introduction
The Feminine Mind-1
The War Between the Sexes-2.1
The War Between the Sexes-2.2
The War Between the Sexes-2.3
Marriage-3.1
Marriage-3.2
Marriage-3.3
Marriage-3.4
Woman Suffrage-4.1
Woman Suffrage-4.2
Woman Suffrage-4.3
Woman Suffrage-4.4
The New Age-5.1
The New Age-5.2
The Kama Sutra of Vatsyayana. INTRODUCTION
THE VATSYAYANA SUTRA-1-2
THE VATSYAYANA SUTRA-3-4-5
OF SEXUAL UNION-1-2
OF SEXUAL UNION-3-4-5
OF SEXUAL UNION-6-7-8
OF SEXUAL UNION-10-11
ABOUT THE ACQUISITION OF A WIFE-1-2
ABOUT THE ACQUISITION OF A WIFE-3-4-5
ABOUT A WIFE-1-2
ABOUT THE WIVES OF OTHER MEN-1-2
ABOUT THE WIVES OF OTHER MEN-3-4
ABOUT THE WIVES OF OTHER MEN-5-6
ABOUT COURTESANS-1-2
ABOUT COURTESANS-3-4
ABOUT COURTESANS-5-6
ABOUT THE MEANS OF ATTRACTING OTHERS TO YOURSELF-1-2
CONCLUDING REMARKS

having failed, he leaves her alone for the future. In the same way, when 

a woman is once gained, he often becomes indifferent about her. As for 

the saying that a man does not care for what is easily gained, and only 

desires a thing which cannot be obtained without difficulty, it is only 

a matter of talk. 

 

The causes of a woman rejecting the addresses of a man are as follows: 

 

1. Affection for her husband. 

 

2. Desire of lawful progeny. 

 

3. Want of opportunity. 

 

4. Anger at being addressed by the man too familiarly. 

 

5. Difference in rank of life. 

 

6. Want of certainty on account of the man being devoted to travelling. 

 

7. Thinking that the man may be attached to some other person. 

 

8. Fear of the man's not keeping his intentions secret. 

 

9. Thinking that the man is too devoted to his friends, and has too 

great a regard for them. 

 

10. The apprehension that he is not in earnest. 

 

11. Bashfulness on account of his being an illustrious man. 

 

12. Fear on account of his being powerful, or possessed of too impetuous 

passion, in the case of the deer woman. 

 

13. Bashfulness on account of his being too clever. 

 

14. The thought of having once lived with him on friendly terms only. 

 

15. Contempt of his want of knowledge of the world. 

 

16. Distrust of his low character. 

 

17. Disgust at his want of perception of her love for him. 

 

18. In the case of an elephant woman, the thought that he is a hare man, 

or a man of weak passion. 

 

19. Compassion lest any thing should befall him on account of his 

passion. 

 

20. Despair at her own imperfections. 

 

21. Fear of discovery. 

 

22. Disillusion at seeing his grey hair or shabby appearance. 

 

23. Fear that he may be employed by her husband to test her chastity. 

 

24. The thought that he has too much regard for morality. 

 

Whichever of the above causes a man may detect, he should endeavour to 

remove it from the very beginning. Thus, the bashfulness that may arise 

from his greatness or his ability, he should remove by showing his great 

love and affection for her. The difficulty of the want of opportunity, 

or if his inaccessibility, he should remove by showing her some easy way 

of access. The excessive respect entertained by the woman for him should 

be removed by making himself very familiar. The difficulties that arise 

from his being thought a low character he should remove by showing his 

valour and his wisdom; those that come from neglect by extra attention; 


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